Dr. Lita’s Book Has Arrived!

ADAM WAS TRAPPED EVE WAS FRAMED

"Five Steps to Relationship Freedom"

By Lita Rawdin Singer, Ph.D.

Life is in Session…Are you Present?

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“In the assymetrical warfare between the sexes, Lita Rawdin Singer is the Gen. Petraeus of our time. Her extraordinary new book, ADAM WAS TRAPPED, EVE WAS FRAMED, gives us spiritual concepts and practical techniques to right the imbalance that has been plaguing men and women for thousands of years, since the ancient Goddess religion was overthrown by the Patriarchy. Dr. Singer is a passionate advocate for the partnership relationship (as opposed to one based on dominance/submission), a union of equals in which neither partner has to give up who she is, or who he is, in order to love and be loved. Buy this book!”

--Steven Pressfield

Author,

• The Last of the Amazons (the culture of female warriors)
• Legend of Bagger Vance
• The War of Art

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“What a clever and brilliant title ADAM WAS TRAPPED, EVE WAS FRAMED and the substance of the book easily compliments the title.  It is as good, or better than any book I have read on the quest for personal freedom.  Part One, alone, on being “Awake” is worth the price of the book.  Life is in session…are you present? This book, in a beautiful and profound way, tells you how you can become “present” on your personal road to freedom.”

--William Edelen

• Former Minister at the First Congregational Church in Tacoma Washington
• Lecturer for the Department of Religion at the University of Puget Sound
• Columnist, writer and speaker

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“At last, here is a practical book for helping women and men address their problems by getting at the root causes—prehistoric events that led to male insecurity and the subordination of women, transmitted to us over the ages by religious views of a male God and inferior, submissive women.  What Dr. Singer terms “spiritual abuse” is a major contributor to the problems between the sexes, and she provides a guide to help couples to escape from it.”

--Robert S. McElvaine

• Author, Eve’s Seed: Biology, the Sexes and the Course of History.
  
• Chair, Department of History Millsaps College, Jackson, MS

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"Life is in Sesson...are you present?"
Take a dive into Lita Rawdin Singer's novel
Adam was Trapped Eve was Framed

Five steps to Relationship Freedom, and find out if you can answer this question in your relational life. Singer's novel guides couples to become more physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually healthy. In order to achieve this, Singer eloquently explains that the toughest work, and most important for relationships, begins within. Once we find inner peace, finding love will follow.

The book establishes five steps which serve as helpful answers for improving relationships: Awake, Notice, Catch Interrupt, and Change. Enjoy the book's easy to read steps and tips for relational freedom as you learn about "Spiritual Abuse" and how to move from a dominant / submissive relationship to a cohesive partnership.

The novel's practical applicaton helps women and men sift through issues and sub-issues to address the root of their problems. According to the book, these problems are dervied from prehistoric events that led to male insecurity and the subordination of women. Indulge in this stimulating and enlightening book as you take a journey to improve your relationships in the present, and create awareness for relationships in the future.

"Food and Home" Spring 2009

Megan Lucero

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I have not put the book down ! I love it and think every woman and man on the planet should have a copy by age 12. I will be buying more copies to send to friends who do not live in our area as I think it is one of the best relationship books I have ever read . Straight talk, great and simple remedies, insightful and just a dog gone great read !

Congratulations !!!!!

Love Susan

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“Now is the perfect time for “Adam Was Trapped, Eve Was Framed,” Dr. Lita Rawdin Singer’s first dynamic book regarding the five steps to relationship freedom. This is the first most easily read, informative, and instructional therapeutic book on this subject. Because “Adam and Eve” is written with such concise precision, everyone will be able to understand and relate to similar conditions within their own relationships, no matter the gender or sexual preferences.

Dr. Singer has captured the very essence of a person’s or couple’s concerns regarding their own relationships, how to approach these concerns, and in a very simplistic, easy and thorough manner, be able to resolve any problems and improve not only their own individual station in life, but those around them as well.

The book is a smooth read with exercises easy to follow, promising effective and satisfactory results. Short in length and easy to follow with a positive assurance of personal satisfaction.. Here is a quote from her book, that sums up the reader’s conclusion, “I have developed the ability to self-reflect, identify and express what I think, feel, and desire.”

My advice, run out and buy this book now! You won’t regret it! ”

--R.C. Rogers

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"It is refreshing to find a book on relationships that addresses spiritual issues that impact intimacy! In Adam Was Trapped; Eve Was Framed, Dr. Lita Rawdin Singer leads the reader through a process of discernment to help the individual discover greater authenticity of the true Self and to find ways to relate intimately without the constrictions of familial, cultural, and religious beliefs that limit the individual and trap the couple in prescribed roles. “Wake Up” initiates the relationship work by teaching spiritual practices of presence, mindfulness, and meditation. To have these practices included as elements to healing oneself and one’s relationship gives weight to the importance of including them in our daily lives. Dr. Singer does so in a very natural and easily understood way. She courageously challenges religious views of male superiority and of the dominance/submission model of marriage, identifying them as spiritual abuse, and offers a new egalitarian partnership model that honors women as well as men. The goal of relationship work is not just to effect changes in behaviors but to move toward inner peace. In fact, the topic of change is introduced by “The Serenity Prayer” by Reinhold Niebuhr:

“Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.”

The change Dr. Singer advances is the freedom to be present and awake to one’s life rather than moving through life and relationships on autopilot, and, in the process, to learn to love yourself so that love for the other comes from a place of inner peace and contentment.

--Dr. Carolyn Roberts
--Psychologist and Spiritual Healer

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Santa Barbara NewsPress March 8, 2009

Adam Was Trapped Eve Was Framed: Five Steps to Relationship Freedom

By Dr. Lita Rawdin Singer

“Add to physical and mental abuse the concept of spiritual abuse. So says psychologist Dr. Lita Rawdin Singer, who looks at couples whose unhappiness stems from the impact of religion. In a series of five steps, Santa Barbara resident, Dr. Singer guides couples into a greater awareness.

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Montecito Journal February 12, 2009

On Friday February 13, just in time for Valentine’s, Dr. Lita Singer will be signing copies of her new non-fiction book, “Adam Was Trapped; Eve was Framed Five Steps to Relationship Freedom”. The book focuses on the link between achieving personal freedom and relationship freedom, which Dr. Singer says starts from within.

Recently described as “the General Petraeus of our time,” Dr. Singer says her focus is on an equal partnership, as opposed to one based on dominance and submission. Dr. Singer is a clinical psychologist as well as a professor, and has led professional study tours around the world for the last three decades. Originally from New York, she now lives and practices in Santa Barbara. .

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I thought your book was amazing, eye opening and dramatic. I have been self hypnotizing myself for 21 years, and it has been invaluable for me to clear my head. I found that the inner core of problems do have solutions, and usually are things we know about or suspect going into a marriage, but tend to grate on us after being together for years.

We need to go back to the time when we first met and relive the feelings we had then. We need to remember our thoughts and fight for our spouses and our children like we fought for the right to marry in the first place.

I think your book has the ability to save 50% of the marriages in this country, and give the other 50% the true knowledge about why the marriage will not work or is not working and better understand what our spouses really feel.

This book is a true problem solver, and shows that change and action are integral in saving a marriage, and did I say compassion?

Thank you, Dr. Singer for writing this book.
Susan Lyte

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